This has been a year of hard reminders that our lives are as brief and uncertain as smoke.
“You don’t even know what tomorrow will bring–what your life will be! For you are like smoke that appears for a little while, then vanishes.” James 4:14
None of the grief has been in our inner circle, but we’ve been on the fringes of so many deaths and devastating diagnoses this year. This week, some extended family members of ours lost their 2-month-old unexpectedly. The grief is so huge that it’s impossible to understand. My husband attended the funeral and told me it was the most gut-wrenching, but also the most hopeful, experience of his life. The young couple is heart-broken and devastated, of course, but also so filled with hope and so eager to present the gospel to the 200+ people who came to support them and celebrate their precious little one’s life.
I often wonder how I will handle this type of grief when I experience it. I have not yet lost a parent, spouse, child, or very close friend. Obviously, though, it’s only a matter of time until I do. I don’t know how strong I’ll be. I don’t know if presenting the gospel will be the most important thing to me. I don’t know if I’ll be able to stand at the front of a church and calmly talk about how God gave his only son for me, which puts my own loss into perspective. I’m convicted by the thought that what I would want to do is sleep and cry in my bed for a month. And convicted about my reactions to even minor crises that I face, when others I know are handling real crises with so much grace.
Hold the ones you love tightly, and don’t take your time with them for granted. Why is it so easy to forget this?
Say a prayer for Jack & Anna and their families, please.